The Eleven Rites of Becoming
On June 9 — the Day of Relationships — a sacred portal opens.
Not in time, not in place — but in the field of meaning.
What if relationships were not built, but initiated?
Not searched, but summoned?
Not tolerated, but designed — through frequency, form, and ritual?
Here are the 11 alchemical rites I recognize as the codes of a woman who lives as a myth in motion.
A woman who is not chosen — she chooses.
Not followed — but creates the gravitational pull.
1.
Clearing the Gate
Obstacle Removal — Energetic Architecture
No union can emerge where inner sabotage whispers.
This rite sweeps the ruins, clears ancestral dust, and declares:
“I am ready for what I’ve always been.”
2.
The Heart’s Call
Ritual of Sovereign Love
This is the whispered prayer — not for just any partner —
but for the equal mirror, the true initiator, the one whose presence opens your feminine deeper.
Call him from the quantum.
3.
Anointment of Vitality
Health, longevity, embodied radiance
This rite blesses the body-temple — so that the woman may walk, not as a shadow,
but as a living flame of clarity, pleasure, and inner command.
4.
Hands in Vow
Devotion to Dharma — to meaning, to mission
To love is not to cling.
To love is to co-create worlds.
This rite seals her vow to never forget herself in another — but to expand because of him.
5.
Circle of Light
Protection of the Feminine Field
A woman this open must be protected.
Energetically. Psychically. Archetypally.
This rite draws a golden circle — only that which honors enters.
6.
The Gift
Receiving without earning
She receives one gift — not because she deserves, but because she exists.
This rite rewrites the contract of worthiness.
7.
Vows of Joy
Sacred Union through Pleasure
Not contracts, not roles — but the poetry of true relating.
This rite blesses laughter, sensuality, and love that breathes.
8.
Adornment of Abundance
Vesture. Value. Velvet codes.
This is where matter meets myth.
A woman who dresses as the future, moves as gold, walks as currency.
Your fabric is your spell.
9.
The Ribbon of Time
Longevity of Sacred Partnership
Not all love is meant to last — but this rite blesses the one that is.
The one where two timelines choose to braid into one.
10.
The Womb’s Blessing
Legacy. Creation. Sacred Continuation.
Not only of children — but of ideas, movements, works.
This is where the feminine births a new world — through her or from her.
11.
Crown of the Invisible
Union with the Divine
No man, no creation, no abundance is the source.
She remembers: her true lover is the Source itself.
And from that connection, all else flows.
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I do not wait for life.
I ritualize it.
I do not hope for love.
I design the frequency it arrives in.
— Annette Fleur de Lis